Family Counseling

Pursuing Counseling as a Stepparent

2024-09-27T09:34:40+00:00April 24th, 2024|Family Counseling, Featured, Individual Counseling, Relationship Issues|

Let’s be honest – being a stepparent can be hard. Whether you are walking into a situation where the divorce was amicable or not there is pressure with being the new parent on the block. Coming into a family with older children presents a certain set of challenges and may require counseling to help. The other parent may be respected, or they may not. They might be freely talked about, or their name may never be mentioned. Maybe the person you marry has a good relationship with their ex. Maybe it is adversarial, and your partner can find nothing good to say about them. Whatever the situation, being a stepparent can feel like being in the middle of a hedge maze with no way to get your bearings. The reality is that a new marriage does not just include the adults involved. Stepping into a family, whether the kids are in the house or not, is complicated. While there is no one-size-fits-all solution, below are some tips to help with the transition. The best thing you can do is to be respectful of the children and where they are. You are not going anywhere, and neither are they. As the older person in the situation, there is more expectation placed on you to make the children feel comfortable and not threatened. Remember at the end of any snide comment about the other parent is their child who loves that person. The child is dealing with a mountain of trauma, pain, questions, and emotion. Insulting the other parent will only cause friction. Find a place outside the home to express your frustrations and process the situation. Counseling can be a good resource. Even if you are overly respectful of the other parent, there will still be moments of pain and [...]

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How Does Counseling for Children Differ from Counseling for Teens

2024-09-27T09:26:06+00:00July 6th, 2023|Christian Counseling for Children, Christian Counseling For Teens, Family Counseling, Featured|

If you’ve ever wondered what a counseling for children looks like versus what your teen might undergo, we’ve got good news. This article will help you understand: Kinds of therapy counseling for teens might offer. Types of therapy available for counseling children. Markers that differentiate between the two age groups. Reasons that children and teens might seek counseling. Counseling for teens Teens who undergo counseling have some therapies available to them that young children don’t. This is simply because some of the therapy types are too abstract for young children. An example of this is Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). This type of therapy can especially help teens who struggle with self-harm or suicidal ideation. The concepts of this therapy may be too mature for children’s developmental stage. In this type of therapy, a teen might explore how he or she deals with conflict and whether or not the emotional landscape is handled healthfully or not. A combination of individual and family counseling can incorporate DBT. Supportive therapy is also widely used among the teen population; it is used to help teens cope with stress and learn healthier awareness habits. Types of therapy in counseling for children While many therapies for teens and children overlap, one that doesn’t typically apply to teens is play therapy. In this, a counselor will use toys, games, and talking to help a child learn how his emotions impact his behaviors. Children may also start to recognize triggers for negative behavioral patterns and find healthy ways to address these through play. At times, parents may be asked to participate in a family session, or the therapist may meet separately with parents to discuss overall goals and topics that have come up at that point in the child’s therapy journey. Other kinds of counseling that help [...]

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Nurturing Your Children’s Mental Health

2024-10-30T08:57:20+00:00April 12th, 2023|Christian Counseling for Children, Christian Counseling For Teens, Family Counseling, Featured|

Children develop better in all areas – socially, emotionally, mentally, and physically – if they have good mental health. A key to nurturing children’s mental health is loving relationships which help children to manage their feelings. Their mental health is enhanced by physical activity, a nutritious diet, and regular quality sleep. This article focuses on children’s mental health between the ages of three to eight years old. Feeling happy and positive about themselves most of the time is a feeling that characterizes children with good mental health. They feel loved, secure in their environments, and safe. These children are kind to themselves when things get tough, or when they are surprised that things do not go the way they hoped or expected. These feelings reflect internal security about attempting things for the first time, or even tasks they know will be difficult. A good level of children’s mental health is seen in how a child enjoys life, learns well, and has friendly relationships with family and those he or she meets. Should he or she become sad, worried, or angry, the child is able to recover to his or her normal emotional levels in a short period of time. Those in the field find that children’s mental health is a key part of their healthy development as it assists them in building good skills which enable them to navigate behaviors, thoughts, and emotions, and communicate with others. As the child grows, his or her good mental health sets up a robust foundation for continued health and well-being as he or she gets older. Ways to foster children’s mental health A positive relationship between you and your child can be tied directly to building up his or her mental health. Some ideas to strengthen your children’s mental health using loving and [...]

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Coping with Parenthood Burnout

2024-10-30T08:57:34+00:00December 21st, 2022|Couples Counseling, Family Counseling, Featured, Individual Counseling, Marriage Counseling, Men’s Issues, Women’s Issues|

Are you struggling with parenthood burnout? Do any of the following situations seem familiar? Colicky babies. Screaming toddlers. No babysitters. Around-the-clock feeds. Sleep deprivation. Financial strain. Behavior challenges. Constant touching/loud environments that leave you mentally and physically drained. Feelings of failure when trying to figure out a family/faith/career balance. Having to move away from family/support system due to jobs. Spouse long work hours/demanding travel schedules. While being a parent is one of life’s greatest treasures, it can also be one of the most demanding and depleting tasks you are faced with. While doting new parents are head-over-heels in love with their precious bundle of joy, it isn’t long before parents are thrown new curve balls and obstacles that need to be overcome. The weight of caring for, raising, and nurturing another life can feel like too much to carry alone. Sometimes parents who are feeling overwhelmed by circumstances and parenthood burnout do not want to ask for help, because they feel like it means they do not love their baby. Your feelings are valid. Feeling overwhelmed by parenthood means you are human. If you feel overwhelmed because your baby won’t sleep, you aren’t alone. If you feel overcome with postpartum anxiety/depression, you aren’t alone. If you feel so tired and drained that you could fall asleep standing up, you aren’t alone. If you wish you had a trusted babysitter or family around to help, you aren’t alone. If you do not know how to ask for help, you aren’t alone. How to Cope with Parenthood Burnout If you are wondering what to do next as you navigate the trenches of parenthood, consider these steps: Make the call or send the text. If you have a trusted friend or family member who can watch your kids for a few hours so [...]

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